When we were young. We had not a worry in the world, school started in morning and ended mid-day...after lunch we would run out to the playground; we where merry children.
Little girls and little boys, the girls would all gather around and gossip about who was cute and who had cooties. Little boys talked about being brave, sports and other boyish things. A boy was known for picking on the girl they thought was pretty because he liked her. Pulling out the chair from beneath her, tugging on her pony tail and other rude little habits. Of course we where annoyed and some knew that meant he liked us and others cried about it to our mothers. As years went on and we grew up...school became harder, more was expected from a student and as a peer. Middle school was about being popular and high school was about having a boyfriend, a countless amount of friends and being prom queen. Then college came. Some of the girls we knew married their high school sweethearts other sweethearts broke up and went off to different schools. Others remained single, hoping that this time around they would find him...mister right.
No longer do girls deal with boys picking on them in a playful manner but instead the game has changed, now boys are scared to talk to us or say the wrong thing or get the wrong idea. Now what? What luck does a girl have now? Boys went from picking on us because they liked us to thinking we are pretty but say nothing about it, not even able to say hello. Then again there are the self indulge ones who feed off of low self-esteem, by calling us pretty and acting as if we are the only girls in the world because they are only after one thing...but I am not going to get into all that.
College. What is about college boys? So many types yet almost all alike; the same old class clown, mister good boy, the upbeat always ready for anything guy, the jock, the hip guy who follows all the trends and the list goes on and on. Some guys have a girl friend who their always wrapped around, others have a girlfriends and talk all about them but never do you see them together and then there are the single guys.
Only what is about the games guys play or is that even a game? Maybe that is what makes guys and girls so different; we both go on that "men are so complicated" and "women are so complicated", maybe just maybe thats how it should be...thats what makes love, making something complicated, easy. Then sadly when it gets too easy one of the players might lose intrest. But this post isn't about love or falling in love...I just have one question. Why is it so hard for guy to talk to a girl?
I know we have all heard that guys don't because they don't like being told "NO." So...girls are scared of the same word, no one really likes being told no, not even a pup begging for a scrap wants to be told no, so what is the real reason? Why can't it just go back to the old days, when playing a trick on a gal ment you liked her (not that we want to be tripped or anything of that sort), now it is sitting in the back of the room and never saying a word. Scary how much things have changed.
This post is just my mindless ranting...I really do wonder why and keep in mind that I am old fashion, I would never ask a guy out, not because I have fear of hearing "NO" but instead I have a fear of coming off as aggressive and that is just not me, so the last thing I want is a guy getting the wrong impression; but hey girls if you really like a guy let him know!
Have a great weekend!
Stay glam and fab!
XOX,
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P.S. Lets give June one BIG warm welcoming! Hello June, hello Summer!
